How to configure Cortana to respond only to your voice on Windows 10

Alongside the new features and changes included in the Windows 10 Fall Creators Update, to make Cortana settings easier to find, Microsoft has now relocated them to the Settings app in its own section.

However, making the settings easier to find doesn't necessarily mean easier to configure. If you've been trying to enable Cortana to recognize your voice and only respond to your commands, you probably noticed that the option is grayed out. But this is not a bug or something wrong with your device, Windows 10 just doesn't make the feature intuitive to configure.

In this Windows 10 guide, we'll walk you through the easy steps to enable Cortana to respond only to you when using voice commands.

How to get Cortana to respond to your voice commands

In order to enable Cortana's Try to respond only to me feature, use these steps:

  1. Open Settings.
  2. Click on Cortana.
  3. Click on Talk to Cortana.
  4. Under "Hey Cortana," turn on the Let Cortana respond to "Hey Cortana" toggle switch.
  5. This is the tricky part. Once you've enabled "Hey Cortana," the Respond when any says "Hey Cortana" option will be selected, but the Try to respond only to me option will remain grayed out. Windows 10 doesn't make it very obvious, but you need to click the Learn how I say "Hey Cortana" link and go through the voice recognition training to make the option available.

  1. On Cortana, click the Start button.

  1. Repeat the six phrases that Cortana will ask to get familiar with your voice.

  1. After the training, go back to the Settings app, and now select the Try to respond only to me option.

Once you've completed the steps, you'll be the only one that Cortana will respond when using voice commands.

As you can see it's not a complicated process, but it's not intuitive. In my opinion, what Microsoft should have done in the Settings app is to make the option available for selection, and as you change the settings, the training wizard should appear to set up the feature. Then if you close the wizard without going through the training, the option should revert to its default state. That simple.

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Mauro Huculak

Mauro Huculak is technical writer for His primary focus is to write comprehensive how-tos to help users get the most out of Windows 10 and its many related technologies. He has an IT background with professional certifications from Microsoft, Cisco, and CompTIA, and he's a recognized member of the Microsoft MVP community.

  • Any news of more Cortana language and region support?
  • It might be simple if you live in the US. How about some advice for those of us who live in the rest of the world!!
  • Set your device to a language cortana supports ;)
  • Yup, so you get US news, US ads, etc...
  • THANK YOU!!!! Similar setup on my WP. It was so annoying before when watching Dan's video demo of the Invoke. Every time he'd say "Hey Cortana" in the video my phone's Cortana would respond haha
  • Is someone having a joke.ive been trying this way for 18 month.and still not get past the 1/6 bit
  • and that's odd as in rs4 you can toggle between both as "respond only to me" is not greyed out.
  • It remains greyed out if cortana doesn't have any memory of your voice.
  • Cortana? Who the f*ck is Cortana? Never heart him or her in the Netherlands!
  • It doe snot function veyr well. In fact Cortana sucks. Once I completed the training, it refused to repond to my voice, and it stupid thing still wants to use the web to search when telling it do it something. This is going on FAIL BLOG.